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,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 1

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

(kdpj tho;tpd; vy;yh mk;rq;fspYk; rhpahd jPh;itj; jUk; ,];yhk;> jpUkz tho;if vt;thW mika Ntz;Lk; vd;gijAk; kdpjDf;F nrhy;ypj; juhky; tpl;L tpl tpy;iy. kdk; Nghd Nghf;fpy; tho;f;ifia mikj;Jf; nfhz;L mtjpg;gLk; vj;jidNah FLk;gj; jiytDk; jiytpAk; njhpe;J nfhs;s Ntz;ba mk;rq;fs; ,e;j njhlhpy; ,lk; ngw ,Uf;fpwJ> my;yh`; ehbdhy;... - vbl;lh;];)

   Foe;ijfisg; ngw;Wf; nfhs;s rhpahd rl;lG+h;tkhd topahfTk;> G+kpapy; kdpjh;fis topj;Njhd;wy;fshf Mf;Ftjw;fhfTk;; jpUkzk; nra;J nfhs;SkhW my;yh`; fl;lisapl;Ls;shd;.

   ,];yhkpa ehl;bd; mbg;gil mikg;G FLk;gkhFk;> ,];yhkpa rKjhaj;jpd; mbg;gil mikg;Gk; FLk;gNkahFk;.

   kdpj> tpyq;F ,d N[hbfSf;fpilNa tpUg;gj;ijAk;> Foe;ijia ngw;Wf; nfhs;Sk; ,aw;ifj; jd;ikiaAk; my;yh`; cz;lhf;fpdhd;.

   Foe;ijfs; topahf tho;f;if ,e;j G+kpapy; njhlh;fpwJ. me;jf;  Foe;ijfs; jhd; jpUkzj;jpd; %yk; cUthdth;fs;.

   ,Ug;gpDk;> rhjhuzkhf MZlk;igAk; ngz;Zlk;igAk; Nrh;g;gJk;> re;jjpfis cUthf;FtJk; jhd; ,];yhkpa jpUkzk; vd;W nrhy;y KbahJ> my;yJ tpUg;gj;ij jPh;j;Jf; nfhs;tjw;Nfh> Ntl;ifia jzpj;Jf; nfhs;tjw;Nfh ,];yhkpa jpUzk; mikf;fg;gl tpy;iy.

   jpUkzj;jpd; Nehf;fk; ntspg;gilahd cly; rk;ge;jkhd cz;ikfis tplTk; mjd; mh;j;jk;; ,d;Dk; MokhdJ.

   my;yh`; kpfg; nghpatd; Fh;Mdpy; my;&k; (30) vd;w mj;jpahaj;jpy; 21 tJ trdj;jpy; me;j cz;ikia ntspg;gLj;Jfpd;whd;.

   ',d;Dk;> ePq;fs; mth;fsplk; MWjy; ngWtjw;Fwpa kidtpaiu cq;fspypUe;Nj cq;fSf;fhf mtd; gilj;jpUg;gJk; cq;fspilNa ctg;igAk; fpUigiaAk; cz;lhf;fpapUg;gJk; mtDila mj;jhl;rpfspy; cs;sjhFk;. rpe;jpj;J czuf; $ba r%fj;jpw;f;F epr;rakhf ,jpy; mj;jhl;rpfs; ,Uf;fpd;wd".

   ,e;j rh`d; vd;w MWjy; vd;gJ rhjhuzkhf clYwTf;Fg; gpwF xUth; czuf;$bajy;y> mJ clYwTf;Fg; gpwF cs;sj; Njitfs; epiwT nra;ag;gl;l gpd; fpilf;Fk; mikjpahFk;;.

    xt;nthUtUk; mtutUf;Fs; KOikahf;fg;gl Ntz;ba Fiwit my;yJ Fiwthd czh;it mwpe;Nj ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;> gy%l;lg;gl Ntz;ba gytPdj;ijAk; my;yJ rpyuhy; kl;LNk jPh;f;f KbAk; jdpikiaAk; vy;NyhUk; njhpe;Nj itj;jpUf;fpwhh;fs;.

     Nkw;f;$wpa Njitfis G+h;j;jp nra;J nfhs;tjhy; ,Wjpapy; tpisaf; $ba my;yJ xUth; czuf; $ba mikjp my;yJ kdjpUg;jpiaj; jhd; MWjy; (mugpapy; rh`d;) vd;W nrhy;yg;gLfpwJ.

    ,t;thW ,];yhkpa jpUkzk; vd;gJ epahakhd rl;lG+h;tkhd clYwtpy; <LgLtJ vd;gij tpl ,d;Dk; NkyhdJ. FLk;g mq;fj;jpdhpd; cly;> cs;sk;> mwpTj; Njitfis G+h;j;jp nra;tNjhL> Mz;fspd;> ngz;fspd;> Foe;ijfspd; chpikfis ghJfhg;gNj mjpy; mjpf Kf;fpaj;Jtk; tha;e;jJ.   

   egp (]y;) mth;fs; jpUkzj;jpd; Kf;fpaj;Jtj;ij nrhy;Yk; NghJ>

  'xU my;yh`;tpd; mbahd; jpUkzk; nra;J nfhz;lhNdahdhy;> mtd; khh;f;fj;jpd; ghjp flikfisg; G+h;j;jpahf;fp tpl;ltdhthd; kPjpia G+h;j;jpahf;f mtd; my;yh`;it gae;J nfhs;sl;Lk;" vd;W $wpdhh;fs;.

(E}y; : ig`f;fp> kp];fhj; k]hgP`; - 1128)   

,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 2

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

   re;Njfj;jpw;fplkpd;wp md;G> xUtUf;nfhUth; khpahij nrYj;JtJ> gu];gu ftdpg;G my;yJ xUth; kw;wth; kPJ ftdnkLj;Jf; nfhs;tJ Nghd;wtw;wpd; mbg;gil tp\aq;fshy; mikf;fg;gl;l jpUkzq;fs;> Vl;bf;Fg; Nghl;bahd N[hbfspd; jw;fhypf cwTfSf;F $l jiyrpwe;jjhf ,Uf;fpd;wd.

   ,J Nghd;w jpUkzq;fs; xU FLk;gj;jpd; mbg;gil mikg;ig fhg;gjd; %yk; xU rKjhaj;ijNa epiyj;jpUf;fr; nra;fpwJ.

   mDkjpf;fg;gl;l cwTfis kwe;J tpl;L> kNdh ,r;irg;gb elf;f mDkjpj;jhy; xU rKjhak; ,Wjpapy; vd;dthFk;?

   khpahijAk; MjuTk; nfhLf;fg;glhky;> ftdpf;fg;glhj epiyapy; cs;s ngz;fspd; Foe;ijfspd; epiy vd;d?

   ,g;gbg; gl;l rKjhak; tpyq;Ffspd; rKjhaj;ij tpl fPo;jukhdjhFk;. me;j tpyq;Fr; rKjhak; $l Fiwe;jJ ,aw;if Fzq;fshy; eph;tfpf;fg;gLfpwJ.

   mitfspd; N[hbfSf;Fk; Fl;bfSf;Fk; nfhLf;fTk; ghJfhf;fTk; me;j ,aw;if FzNk fhuzkhfpwJ.

   mjd; tpisthf> rKjhaj;ijf; fhg;gjw;nfd;Nw Gdpjkhdjhf epakpf;fg;gl;l jpUkzg;gof;fj;jpd; kPJ ,];yhk; mjpf mOj;jj;ijf; nfhLj;jpUf;fpwJ.

    'jpUkzk; nra;J nfhs;tJ vd;Dila Rd;dj;jhFk;. ahnuy;yhk; vd;Dila Rd;dj;ij (topKiwia) gpd;gw;w tpy;iyNah mth;fs; ek;ikr; rhh;e;jth;fs; my;yh;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.     (mwptpg;gth; : md]; gpd; khypf; (uyp)> E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk;> ,g;D kh[h)

    egp (]y;) mth;fs; Nkw;fz;lthW $wp> cz;ikapy; jpUkzj;ij vjph;f;Fk; rka NgjpfSf;F ey;y R+L nfhLj;jhh;fs;.

    jpUkzk; nra;ahky; clYwtpy; <LgLtJ ,];yhj;jpy; jLf;fg;gLtjpypUe;J> xt;nthUthpd; ,aw;ifahd MirfSf;F topfis Vw;gLj;jpf; nfhLj;Jk;> Mz; ngz; ,Ughyhhpd; clYf;Fk; cs;sj;Jf;Fk; ghJfhg;G mspj;Jk;> ghtr; nray;fis tpl;Lk;> jpUkzk; xt;nthUtiuAk; ghJfhf;fpwJ.

    epr;rakhf> xt;nthUtUk; rKjhaj;jpy; xUth; vd;w Kiwapy; rpy chpikfisg; ngWfpwhh;fs;> mNj Neuj;jpy; rKjhaj;jpw;fhf nra;a Ntz;ba flikfSf;Fk; nghWg;ghspahfpwhh;fs;.

    FLk;g mq;fj;jpdh; xt;nthUtUk; rpy chpikfisg; ngWfpwhh;fs; FLk;g mikg;Gf;Fs;Ns nra;ag;gl Ntz;ba flikfSf;Fk; nghWg;ghspahfpwhh;fs;.

    xU rKjhaj;jpd; gyjug;gl;l nghWg;Gjhhpfspd; nghWg;Gf;fis egp (]y;) mthfs; gpd;tUkhW RUf;fkhf nrhd;dhh;fs;:

    'cz;ikapy;> cq;fspy; xt;nthUtUk; topfhl;bAk; nghWg;GjhhpAk; MtPh;fs;. ePq;fs; xt;nthUtUk; cq;fisr; rhh;e;jtUf;F nghWg;GjhhpahtPfs;. xU jiyth;> kf;fspd; topfhl;bAk; nghWg;GjhhpAk; Mthh;. mth; kf;fs; rk;ge;jg;gl;l tp\aq;fspy; vt;thW ele;J nfhz;lhh; vd;gJ gw;wp Nfs;tp Nfl;fg;gLthh;. xU Mz;> mtUila FLk;g mq;fj;jpdhpd; topfhl;bAk; nghWg;GjhhpAk; Mthh;> FLk;g mq;fj;jpdh; gw;wp Nfs;tp Nfl;fg;gLthh;. xU ngz;> mtSila FLk;g mq;fj;jpdh;fis ghJfhg;gtshths;> FLk;gj;jpdiu vg;gb eph;tfpj;jhs;> vg;gb Foe;ijfis tsh;j;jhs; vd;gJ gw;wp Nfs;tp Nfl;fg;gLths;. xU mbik> jd; v[khdhpd; nrhj;Jf;fspd; ghJfhtyd; Mthd;> mtw;iw ek;gpf;ifAld; vg;gbg; ghJfhj;jhd; vd;gJ gw;wp Nfs;tp Nfl;fg;gLthd;. cz;ikapy; cq;fspy; xt;nthUtUk; topfhl;bAk; nghWg;GjhhpAk; MtPh;fs;. xt;nthUtUk; cq;fisr; rhh;e;jth;fs; gw;wp Nfs;tp Nfl;fg;gLtPh;fs;".                                        (mwptpg;gth; : ,g;D ckh; (uyp)> E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk; - 4496)

    ,t;thW jpUkzk; vd;gJ jpUkzj;jpy; <Lglf;$bath;fspd; tho;f;ifr; rl;lk; xt;nthUtUf;Fk; tpj;jpahrkhdjhf Mf;fg;gl;bUf;fpwJ. Mdhy; xt;nthUtUk; nra;a Ntz;ba Ntiyapd; gq;fhdJ chpikfs; kw;Wk; mJ rk;ge;jg;gl;l nghWg;Gf;fis cs;slf;fpaJ> mg;gbg;gl;ljpy; $l;lhspahf ,Ug;gJ vd;W fUj KbahJ. $l;lhspfSs; xt;nthUtUk; FLk;gj;ij ey;y tpjj;jpy; elj;jpr; nry;tjw;F mtuth;fspd; gq;if epiwNtw;w Ntz;Lk;.

    mtuth;fspd; nghWg;Gf;fs; epiwNtw;wg;gl tpy;iyahdhy; xUtNuh my;yJ ,UtUNkh Nfl;Lg; ngw chpik ngwkhl;lhh;fs;. gpd;tUk; Fh;Md; trdj;jpy; xt;nthUtUk; nra;a Ntz;baitfis nghJthd eilKiwahf my;yh`; nrhy;fpwhd;:

    '(Mz;> ngz; ,Ughyhhpy;) my;yh`; rpyiu tpl rpyiu Nkd;ikg;gLj;jp itj;jpUf;fpwhd;. (Mz;fs;) jq;fs; nrhj;Jf;fspypUe;J (ngz; ghyhUf;Fr;) nryT nra;J tUtjpdhYk;> Mz;fs; ngz;fis eph;tfpf;f Ntz;bath;fshf ,Uf;fpd;wdh;. vdNt ey;nyhOf;fKila ngz;bh; (jq;fs; fztd;khh;fsplk;) tpRthrkhfTk; gzpe;Jk; elg;ghh;fs;. (jq;fs; fztd;khh;fs;) ,y;yhj rkaj;jpy; ghJfhf;fg;gl Ntz;batw;iw my;yh`;tpd; ghJfhty; nfhz;L ghJfhj;Jf; nfhs;thh;fs;". (my;Fh;Md; - md;dprh 4 : 34)

,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 3

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

    egp (]y;) mth;fs; jdJ ,Wjp `[;[pd; NgUiuapd; NghJ> Mz; ngz;fspd; chpikfis ,d;Dk; njspthf tpsf;fpdhh;fs;. mth;fs; nrhd;djhtJ:

    'cq;fSf;F gpbf;fhj vtiuAk; cq;fSila tPl;Lf;Fs; Eioa mDkjpf;ff; $lhJ vd;gjpy; ngz;fs; kPJ cq;fSf;F chpikapUf;fpwJ. cq;fSf;F mlq;ftpy;iy vd;why; (Nyrhf) mbf;fyhk;. tUkhdj;jpw;F jf;fthW kidtpf;F Mil mzptpf;fTk;> czT nfhLf;fTk; fztd; kPJ ngz;fSf;F chpikapUf;fpwJ".    (mwptpg;gth; : mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk;)

    vdNt ngz;fspd; MjuthsuhfTk; ghJfhtsuhfTk; Mz;fs; nghWg;ghspahf;fg;gl;L ,Uf;fpwhhfs;. Vndd;why; ngz;fspd; ghJfhtsuhfTk; eph;thfpahfTk; ,e;j Ntiyia epiwNtw;w my;yh`; Mz;fSf;F Njitahd mwpTj; jpwidAk; clw;fl;ilAk; je;jpUf;fpd;whd;. mJ ,e;j Kiwapy; fPo;gbe;J elj;jhl;Ltjw;F Mz;fSf;F chpik mspf;fpwJ. NkYk; mth;fspd; (Mz;fspd;) nrhj;Jk;> fTutKk; fhg;ghw;wg;gLfpwJ.

    ngz;fs; mNjNtis fztdpd; nrhj;Jf;fis ghJfhg;gJ> fTutj;ij fhg;ghw;WtJ> fztDf;F mlq;fp elg;gJ Nghd;w nghWg;ig cilath;fshf ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;. mJ> ,e;j Kiwapy; ngz;fis eph;tfpg;gjw;F mDkjpaspf;fpwJ.

    kw;nwhU rkaj;jpy; fztd; kPJ kidtpapd; chpik vd;d? vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fsplk; Nfl;fg;gl;l NghJ>  'eP cz;Zk; NghJ mtSf;Fk; cz;zf; nfhL> eP mzpAk; NghJ mtSf;Fk; mzpaf; nfhL> Kfj;jpy; miwaf; $lhJ> nfl;l thh;j;ijfshy; jpl;lf; $lhJ> (xOf;fj;ij NgZk; Nehf;fj;jpw;fhf) gLf;ifiaj; jtpu mtis ntWf;ff; $lhJ" vd;W gjpYiuj;jhh;fs;. (mwptpg;gth; : KMtpah (uyp)> E}y;fs; : mG+jhT+j;> ,g;Dkh[h> kp];fhj;)

    mnkhpf;fh> INuhg;gh Nghd;w Nkw;fj;jpa ehLfspy; K];ypk; my;yhNjhUf;F kj;jpapy; nghJthf gutpapUf;fpw> kidtpia mbj;Jf; nfhLikg;gLj;Jk; NehahdJ Gjpjhf K];ypk; Mdth;fshYk; jtWjyhf> mwpag;glhj epiyapy; filgpbf;fg;gLfpw fhuzj;jpdhy; ,e;j tp\ak; Fwpj;J mjpf tpsf;fk; Njitg;gLfpwJ.

    '(mwpahikf; fhyj;jpy;) mbikia rTf;fhy; mbj;jJ Nghd;W cq;fs; kidtpaiu mbf;fhjPh;fs;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; xU Kiw nrhd;dhh;fs;. (mwptpg;gth; : mg;Jy;yh`; gpd; rkM (uyp)> E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk;> kp];fhj;)

    ,t;thW mbg;gJ vd;gJ nghJthf rl;lj;jpw;F cl;gl;L Nyrhf ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk;. mbg;gjd; Nehf;fk; typia Vw;gLj;j Ntz;Lk; vd;gjw;fhf ,Uf;ff; $lhJ. jtiw czh;e;J jpUe;jpf; nfhs;Sk; msTf;Fk;> mjpfhuj;ij jpUk;g epiy ehl;Lk; msTf;Fk; ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk;.

    ,t;thW Kfj;jpy; miwtJ> jpl;LtJ> rTf;fhy; mbg;gJ> cliy tWj;JtJ Kjypad ,];yhj;jpy; Kw;wpYk; jLf;fg;gl;Ls;sJ. NkYk; mJ Mj;khTf;Fk; Gdpjkhd ,];yhkpa khh;f;f rl;ljpl;lq;fSf;Fk; KuzhdJ.

    kidtpaiu vspjhf gLf;ifapypUe;J tpyf;fp tpLtJ jhd; egp (]y;) mth;fs; xOf;fj;ijg; Ngz filgpbf;Fk; KiwahFk;.

    'xU Kiw> xU khjk; tiu kidtpAld; cwq;Ftjpy;iy vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; jPh;khdpj;J tpl;lhh;fs;" vd;W md;id Maprh (uyp) mth;fs; mwptpf;fpwhh;fs;. (E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk;> kp]fhj;)

,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 4

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

     epr;rakhf ngz;fspd; 'fztDf;F fPo;gbjy;" vd;gJ FUl;Lj;jdkhd my;yJ Nghypahd fPo;gbjy; my;y. ,];yhkpa khh;f;fj;jpd; fl;lisfSf;F tpNuhjkpy;yhj fztdpd; fl;lisfSf;F ngz;fs; KOf;f KOf;f kdjhu fPo;gbjy; Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ Fwpg;gplj;jf;fJ.

    NkYk; xw;Wikia ek;gpf;ifia epiyehl;Ltij Nehf;fkhff; nfhz;L jd; chpikia F&uj;jdkhf rh;thjpfhuj;jdkhf eilKiwg;gLj;jhky; ,Uf;f fztDf;F mwpTWj;jg;gLfpwJ.

    ,Ug;gpDk; fztDila mjpfhuj;jpw;f;F xU ngz; fPo;gbe;J elg;gJ> mtspd; khh;f;ff; flikfspy; xU gFjpahf epidf;f Ntz;Lk;. mt;thW mij epiwNtw;Wjy; nrhh;f;fj;ij mila cjtpahf ,Uf;Fk; vd;gijAk; czu Ntz;Lk;.

    ,Nj fUj;ij NkYk; egp (]y;) mth;fshy; njspTgLj;jg;gLfpwJ.

    'xU ngz; INtis njhOifiaj; njhOJ te;jhy; ukshd; khjj;jpy; Nehd;G Nehw;W te;jhy; fh;g;ig ghJfhj;J te;jhy; NkYk; mtsJ fztDf;F mlq;fp ele;jhy; nrhh;f;fj;jpd; mts; tpUk;Gk; ve;jf; fjT topahfTk; Eioayhk;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth; : md]; (uyp)> E}y; : mG+`py;ahtpd; mG+EIk;)

    egp (]y;) mth;fs; nrhd;djhf ck;Kry;kh (uyp) mth;fs; mwptpf;fpwhh;fs;.

'jd; fztDf;F jhd; kpfg; gpbj;jkhdtshf ,Uf;Fk; epiyapy; vtNsDk; ,we;J tpLthNsahdhy; mts; Rth;f;fj;ij milths;".

(E}y; : jph;kpjp vz; - 1161)

    kidtpiaAk; FLk;gj;ijAk; eph;tfpg;gJ Mz;fspd; nghWg;G vd;whYk; FLk;gj;jpd; nghUshjhuk; epiyj;jpUf;fTk; my;yJ fztdpd; njhopy; rk;ge;jg;gl;l fhhpaq;fspy; ngz;fs; cjtp nra;a ,ayhJ vd;gJ mh;j;jky;y. mjw;F mtrpakpUe;jhy; my;yJ ,UtUk; mt;thW nra;a xj;Jf; nfhz;lhy; nra;ayhk; vd;gJ cz;ikNa.

    mJNghyNt xU Mz; ngz;Zila tPl;L Ntisfspy; egp (]y;) mth;fs; ele;J nfhz;lJ NghyNt kidtpf;F cjtp nra;tJ Cf;Ftpf;fg;gLfpwJ.

    'egp (]y;) mth;fs; jd; fpope;j Milia mth;fNs ijj;jpUf;fpwhh;fs;> jd; gOjhd fhyzpia mth;fNs rhpnra;jpUf;fpwhh;fs;> Ml;Lg;ghiy jhNd fwe;jpUf;fpwhh;fs;"

(E}y; : m`;kj;)

    gy rkaq;fspy; egp (]y;;) mth;fs; kidtpahplj;jpy; ,uf;fj;JlDk; ,dpikahfTk; cjtpahfTk; ,Uf;f Cf;fg;gLj;jp ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;. Vnddpy; gyk; nghUe;jpath;fs; gytPdkhdth;fSf;F cjTtJ ,aw;ifahdJ.

    egp (]y;) mth;fs; nrhy;fpwhh;fs;> 'mofpa FzKilath;fNs <khdpy; (,iw ek;gpf;ifapy;) KOik ngw;wtuhthh;. jk; FLk;gj;jpdhplk; ey;y Kiwapy; ele;J nfhs;gtNu cq;fspy; rpwe;jtuhthh;".

(mwptpg;gth; : mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y; : jph;kpjp)

    'jd; FLk;gj;jpy; ey;ytpjkhf ele;J nfhs;gtNu cq;fspy; rpwe;jtuhthh;. ehd; cq;fsplj;jpYk; vd; FLk;gj;jpdhplj;jpYk; ey;y tpjkhf ele;J nfhs;fpd;Nwd;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth; : Map\h (uyp)> E}y;fs; : jph;kpjp> jhhpkp> ,g;Dkh[h)

    ,d;Dk; ngz;fs; gw;wp egp (]y;) mth;fs; jd; filrp `[;[pd; NgUiuapy; Fwpg;ghf Mz;fSf;F nrhd;dhh;fs;:

    'cq;fSila kidtpaUld; ele;J nfhs;tjpy; my;yh`;Tf;F mQ;rpf; nfhs;Sq;fs;! Vnddpy; mth;fs; my;yh`;tpd; mDkjpapd; Nghpy;> cq;fis ek;gp cq;fsplk; milf;fykhf xg;gilf;fg; gl;bUf;fpwhh;fs;. my;yh`;tpd; ngauhy; mth;fSld; tPL$LtJ MFkhf;fg; gl;bUf;fpwJ" vd;whh;fs;.

(E}y; : K];ypk;)

    ,];yhkpaj; jpUkzj;jpy; ,UtUk; tPl;by; ,zf;fkhd xw;Wikahd R+oiy cUthf;f xt;nthUtUk; fdpTld; ele;J nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;. fztd; jd; mjpfhuj;ij Nkhrkhd> fLikahd topfspy; gad;gLj;j Njitapy;iy> mJ xUNtis ngz;iz fPo;gbahjthW vjpuhf ele;J nfhs;Sk;gb Mf;fptpLk;.

    'ahnuy;yhk; my;yh`;itAk; ,Wjp ehisAk; ek;Gfpwhh;fNsh mth;fs; gf;fj;J tPl;lhiu Jd;GWj;j Ntz;lhk;. ePq;fs; kidtpaUld; ey;y Kiwapy; ele;J nfhs;Sq;fs;. Vnddpy; mth;fs; Nfhzyhd tpyhvYk;Gfshy; gilf;fg; gl;lth;fs;. ePq;fs; me;jf; NfhzYld; mth;fisg; gad;gLj;JtPHfshapd; mJ gyd; jUk;. md;wp me;jf; Nfhziy epkph;j;jg; ghLgLtPh;fshapd; ePq;fs; mij xbj;J tpLtPh;fs;. MfNt mjw;F jf;fthW mwpTiu $Wq;fs;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpAs;shh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth; : mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y;fs; : G`hhp> K];ypk;)

    mjhtJ vspjpy; kdk; cile;J NghtJk;> czh;r;rp trg;gLtJk; Kd; khjphpahf> Foe;ijia tsh;f;Fk; ngz;fsplj;jpy; ,ize;Nj ,Uf;fpd;wJ. MdhYk; msTf;F mjpfkhf mjpfhuj;ijg; gad;gLj;JtJ nghWj;jkhdjy;y.

    mts; jtWjyhf fztDf;F mlq;fp elf;fhjtshf Mfptplyhk;> my;yJ fztDf;F kWj;Jg; Ngrf;$batshfTk; khwp tplyhk;. mtSila khjtplha; cghijapdhy; ntWg;GlNdh my;yJ njhe;juTlNdh mts; ,Ug;gJ> mtis Nkhrkhd KbntLg;gijAk; my;yJ nghWj;jkpy;yhj Ngr;R NgRtijAk; Vw;gLj;jyhk;. Mz;fs; ngz;fsplk; fbdkpy;yhkYk; jiaAlDk; goFtij mDkjpf;f Ntz;Lk;. ,Jjhd; tho;f;ifapd; cz;ik epiyahFk;.

    kztho;f;ifapd; xw;Wikf;fhd topKiwfs; gw;wp my;yh`; Fh;Mdpy; nrhy;fpwhd;:

    'ngz;fsplk; fdpTld; ele;J nfhs;Sq;fs;" (my;Fh;Md; R+uj;Jd;dprh 4 : 19)

    MZk; ngz;Zk; ez;gh;fshfTk; xw;WikAlDk; tho;tjw;F Jujp];lq;fisAk; Mgj;Jf;fisAk; Rkg;gJ kpf Kf;fpakhdjhFk;> mJ xUtUf;Nfh kw;wtUf;Nfh my;yJ KOf;FLk;gj;jpw;f;Nfh rk;gtpf;fyhk;.

    xU ngz; re;NjhrkhfTk; rhe;jkhfTk; fztDf;F nra;a Ntz;ba flikfis epiwNtw;w Ntz;Lk;. mbg;gilapy; mts; chpikfisAk; flikfisAk; mtSila fztDld; gfph;e;J nfhs;tjpy; rkkhdts; vd;gJ nrhy;yhkNyNa Ghpe;J tpLk;.

    ,e;j cz;ikia my;yh`; Fh;Mdpy; gpd;tUkhW tpthpf;fpd;whd;:

    'fzth;fSf;Fg; ngz;fsplk; ,Uf;Fk; chpikfs; Nghd;W> Kiwg;gb mth;fs; kPJk; ngz;fSf;Fk; chpikAz;L> MapDk; Mz;fSf;F mth;fs; kPJ xUgb cah;Tz;L"

(my;Fh;Md; R+uj;Jy; gfuh 2 : 228)

,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 5

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

    ,UtUk; xUth; kw;wth; kPJ fdpTld; ,Uf;f Ntz;Lk; vd;gJ cz;ikahf ,Ue;Jk; kidtpapd; kPJ fztdpd; chpikahdJ fztd; kPJ kidtpapd; chpikiatpl my;yh`;tpd; nrhy;gb nghpaJ.

    'MapDk; Mz;fSf;F ngz;fs; kPJ xU gb cah;Tz;L ,d;Dk; my;yh`; ty;yikAk; Qhdk; kpf;NfhdhfTk; ,Uf;fpwhd;" (my;Fh;Md; 2:228)

    my;yh`; jhd; ehbaijr; nra;fpwhd;> vjpYk; ey;yijNa Njh;e;njLf;fpwhd;. mtd; kpfg;nghpa mwpthsp> mtd; kdpjdpd; NjitfisAk; kdpjdpd; ,aw;ifahd Fzq;fisAk; kpfTk; mwpe;jtd;. mjdhNyNa Mz;fSf;F nghWg;igAk; rf;jpiaAk; ngz;fSf;F nfhLj;jpUg;gij tplTk; mjpfkhfNt nfhLj;jpUf;fpd;whd;.

    my;yh`; xt;nthd;iwAk;> kdpjth;f;fj;ijAk; N[hb N[hbahf gilj;jpUf;fpd;whd;> mjpy; Mz;fis me;j N[hbapd; rf;jptha;e;jtdhfTk; nra;jpUf;fpd;whd;. ,e;j tp\aj;jpy; my;yh`; nrhd;d ,Wjp thrfg;gb ,jd; Nehf;fj;jpy; ve;j thjj;Jf;Fk; mtrpakpUe;jjpy;iy.

    MfNt ehk; tpyq;fpdq;fisg; ghh;g;NghNkahdhy; mNj Nghd;w gphpT mitfspilNa ,Ug;gij ek;khy; xj;Jf; nfhs;s KbAk;.

    Kd;Ndw;wkile;j my;yJ ehfhPfkhd VNjDnkhU ehL gyiu tplTk; xUtiu ,Wjpahd KbntLg;gjw;F jiytuhf ngw;wpUf;fpwJ vd;gij ehk; mwpe;jpUf;fpd;Nwhk; ,y;iyah! xt;nthU muRk; xU jiytiug; ngw;wpUf;fpwJ.

    my;yh`; mjpy; vy;yhtw;wpw;Fk; Nkyhf R+o;e;jpUf;fpw mwpit Qhdj;ij cilatd;> kdpjj; jd;ikia my;yh`; jPh;f;fkhf mwpe;jpUg;gjhy; me;j Fwpg;gpl;l Ntiyia nra;a Mz;fis my;yh`; Njh;e;njLj;jpUf;fpwhd;.

    me;jj; Njh;T ngz;fSila Ntiyapd; jdpj;jd;ikia Fiwf;fhjJ kl;Lky;y> kpfr;rpwpa msTf;F $l Fiwe;jjhf Njhd;Wtjw;f;F fhuzkhf ,Uf;fhJ.

    rpy ngz;fs; rpy Mz;fis tplTk; Gj;jprhypahfTk; Ml;rp nrYj;Jk; jd;ik cilath;fshfTk; rhkh;j;jpak; kpf;fth;fshfTk; ,Uf;fpwhh;fs; vd;gij ehk; ed;whfNt mwpe;Nj ,Uf;fpd;Nwhk;.

    xU khepyk; ngz;iz jiytuhf nfhz;bUg;gjw;F ehNk rhl;rpahfTk; ,Uf;fpNwhk;. Mdhy; mit my;yh`; nrhy;tjw;F tpjptpyf;fhdit> mJ rhjhuzkhf elg;git my;y.

    cz;ikapy; ek;gj;jFe;j `jP]; xd;wpy; egp (]y;) mth;fs; $Wfpwhh;fs;:

    'xU kdpjd; ,d;ndhU kdpjDf;F ][;jhr; (fhypy; tpOtJ) nra;a ehd; mDkjpg;gjhf ,Ue;jhy; xU ngz;iz mtsJ fztDf;F ][;jhr; nra;AkhW fl;lisapl;bUg;Ngd;"

(mwptpg;gth; : mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y;fs; : jph;kpjp - (1169)> mG+jhT+j; - (2135)

    ,J FLk;gk;> rKjhak; Mfpatw;wpd; mbg;gil mikg;igAk; Mz; ngz; Mfpath;fspd; nghWg;G flikfisAk; NgZtjpy; ,Uf;fpwJ.

    ,e;jf; flikf;F Kf;fpaj;Jtk; nfhLg;gjw;f;fhf my;yh`; Mz;fs; ngwf;$ba nrhj;jpd; msit ngz;fs; ngwf;$ba nrhj;jpd; msittpl mjpfkhdjhf Mf;fpapUf;fpd;whd;.

    xU Mzpd; FLk;gk; rk;ge;jg;gl;l flikfs;> rKjhak; rk;ge;jg;gl;l flikfs;> mjpfhu tuk;Gf;Fs; cs;s ngz;fspd; flikfis tplTk; nghpaJ vd;gjpy; re;Njfk; ,y;iy. mtDila neUq;fpa FLk;gj;jpdiuAk; Vo;ikahd cwtpdh;fisAk; Mjhpg;gJk; mtdJ flikahFk;.

    FLk;gk; rk;ge;jg;gl;l flikfNshL mjpfkhf Mz;fs; ,];yhj;ij gug;Gtjw;fhfTk; ,];yhj;ij ghJfhg;gjw;fhfTk; ,d;Dk; ,];yhj;jpw;fhf MAjk; Ve;jf;$ba tp\aj;jpYk; $l Njitahd Kd;Ndw;ghLfSld; ,Ue;J nfhs;s Ntz;Lk;.

    ngz;fs; ,itfspypUe;Jk; ,itNghd;w flikfspypUe;Jk; tpjptpyf;F mspf;fg;gl;L rhjhuz R+o;epiyapd; fPo; ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;. Nkiy ehLfspy; ,g;NghJ ,Uf;fpw R+o;epiyg;gb gy ngz;fs; FLk;gj;ij Nkk;gLj;j Mz;fSld; Nghl;b Nghl;L Ntiy nra;a flikg;gLj;jg;gl;L ,Uf;fpwhh;fs;.

    cyf mstpy; ghh;f;Fk; NghJ ,J tpjptpyf;fhfTk; tuyhw;wstpy; ghh;f;Fk; NghJ topNflhfTk; ,Uf;fpwJ. mjdhy; ,d;iwa R+o;epiyia - xU ngz;zpd; flikfs; Mzpd; flikfis tplTk; mjpfkhdJ my;yJ rkkhdJ vd;W nrhy;tjw;F cgNahfg;gLj;j KbahJ.

    Mz;fSf;Fk; ngz;fSf;Fk; ,ilNaahd cly; mikg;gpd; tpj;jpahrq;fs; vy;yhk;> rKjhaj;;jpy; Mz;fSila ngz;fSila nray;jpwid ghjpf;fpwJ vd;gij rkPgj;jpa mwptpay; fz;Lgpbg;G njspTgLj;jp ,Uf;fpwJ.

(Mjhuk; : Jo Durden - Smith and Diane De Simone, "Is there a superier sex" Reader's Digest, 1982)

,];yhkpaj; jpUkzk; ghfk; - 6

Mrphpah;fs;: mG+ Mkpdh gpyhy; gpypg;];> [kPyh N[hd;];

nkhopngah;g;G: iea;dh K`k;kJ

    xU ngz; jd; fztDf;F nra;a ntz;ba flikfis egp (]y;) mth;fs; fw;Wj;je;jpUf;fpwhh;fs;.

    'fztd; Chpy; ,Uf;Fk; NghJ mtd; mDkjp ngwhky; Nehd;G Nehw;ff; $lhJ. mtDila mDkjp ngwhky; vtiuAk; tPl;Lf;Fs; mDkjpf;ff; $lhJ. mDila mDkjpapd;wp mtd; gzj;ij nryT nra;aNth> nry;tj;ij cgNahfpf;fNth $lhJ" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth;: mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y;: G`hhp)

    njhOif kidtp kPJ fl;lhaf; flikahf ,Ug;gjhYk;> J}a;ikapd;wp njho rhj;jpakpy;iy vd;gjhYk;> NgUfhy ,uj;jg; Nghf;F epd;w gpwFk; khjtplha; epd;w gpwFk; clYwTf;F gpwFk; Fspg;gJ Nghd;w mtspd; khh;f;ff; flikfis rhpahf nra;AkhW fztd; jd; kidtpf;F fl;lisapl KO chpik ,Uf;fpwJ.

    mtSila khh;f;ff; flikfs; rk;ge;jkhf ,d;Dk; mtis fl;lisapLtnjd;why;> fztdpd; chpikahd 'clYwT"f;fhf mtis mtd; tw;GWj;jTk; KbAk; vd;gjhFk;. fztDld; clYwT nfhs;s kWf;Fk; ngz;fis fz;bj;J mr;nraiy egp (]y;) mth;fs; jLf;fTk; nra;jhh;fs;.

    'xU ngz; fztdpd; gLf;ifia kWj;jhy;> mtd; ,uT KOtJk; Nfhgj;jpy; fopj;jhy;> thdth;fs; me;jg; ngz;iz fhiy tiu rgpf;fpwhh;fs;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; nrhd;dhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth;: mG+`{iuuh (uyp)> E}y;fs;: G`hhp> K];ypk; - 3368)

    'fztd; jdJ kidtpia jd; 'Njit"f;fhf miof;Fk; NghJ mts; rikayiwapy; ,Ue;jhYk; mtdplk; nry;y Ntz;Lk;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth;: jy;f; gpd; myp (uyp)> E}y;: jph;kpjp - 1170)

    ,J epr;rakhf jd; fztid fl;Lg;gLj;jp jd; nrhy;iy Nfl;Fk;gb nra;tjw;f;fhf mepahakhf mtDld; clYwT nfhs;s kWf;Fk; ngz;zpd; epiyiaAk;> flikay;yhjitfis mtSf;fhf mtid nra;Ak;gb tw;GWj;Jtjw;f;F mtDld; clYwT nfhs;s kWf;Fk; ngz;fspd; epiyiaAk; Nkw;fz;l `jP]; Fwpf;Fk;.

    ,g;gbg;gl;l nray; jpUkzj;jpd; ,aw;f;ifahd rkr;rPh; epiyia rPh;Fioj;J tpLfpwJ. gaKWj;jp clYwit kWg;gtSila fztdpd; Njitapy;yhj kdf;Fog;gk;> Kd;dh; nrhy;yg;gl;l jpUkzj;jpd; mbg;gilf; Nfhl;ghlhd 'MWjy;" miltij mopj;J tpLfpwJ. ,aw;f;ifahfNt xU ngz;zpd; chpikfis gwpj;Jf; nfhz;L> NtW ve;jtpjkhd tpUg;gKk; ,y;yhky; tpl;Ltplg;gLtJ vd;gJ ,e;j `jP]pd; mh;j;jj;jpy; cs;slq;f tpy;iy.

    ,d;Dk; xU ngz; fztdpd; mDkjpapd;wp mtdpd; tPl;il tpl;L ntspNawp mtspd; cwtpdh;fisNah my;yJ NjhopfisNah ghh;j;J tu mtSf;F mDkjpapy;iy. Vnddpy; fztDf;F mlq;fp elg;gJ mts; kPJ flik. Mdhy; cwtpdh;;fis ghh;j;J tUtJ mts; kPJ flikay;y> Mdhy; ghpe;Jiuf;fg;gLfpwJ. ghpe;Jiuf;fg;gLtij nra;tjw;f;fhf flikahdij tpl;LtpLtjw;f;F ,];yhkpa rl;lk; mDkjp mspf;f tpy;iy (my;Kf;dp). 

    ,Ug;gpDk; kidtpahplj;jpy; fdpT> Neh;ik Nghd;w ew;gz;GfSld; ele;J nfhs;SkhW Mz;fSf;F fl;;lisaplg;gl;L ,Uf;fpwJ vd;gJ Fwpg;gplj;jf;fJ. mtspd; ngw;NwhiuAk; cwtpdh;fisAk; neUq;fpa NjhopfisAk; ghh;f;fr; nry;tij jf;f fhuzkpd;wp jLg;gJ Neh;ikahdjhf ,Uf;fhJ. mNjNtis my;yh`; ngz;fis ngUehs; njhOiffSf;F nry;tjw;f;F fl;lisapl;bUg;gjhy; mth;fis jLf;f KbahJ.

    MapDk; egp (]y;) mth;fs; nrhd;djhf ,g;D ckh; (uyp) mwptpf;fpwhh;fs;.

'xU ngz;Zila njhOif mtSila tPl;bd; vy;iyf;Fs; ,Ug;gJ ey;yJ" (E}y;: mG+jhT+J - 567)

    vg;gbahapDk;> Kd;dh; nrhy;yg;gl;bUg;gJ Nghy; fztDf;F mlq;fp elg;gJ> mtspd; khh;f;ff; flikahfTk; mtw;iwg; G+h;j;jp nra;tJ ,t;Tyf tho;f;ifapYk; kWTyf tho;f;ifapYk; egp (]y;) mth;fs; nrhd;dgb ngz;fSf;F cjTk; vd mth;fs; epidf;f Ntz;Lk;.

    'xU ngz; INtis njhOJ te;jhy;> ukshdpy; Nehd;G Nehw;why;> fw;g;igf; fhj;J te;jhy;> fztDf;F mlq;fp ele;jhy; mts; Rth;f;fj;jpd; ve;j thapy; topahfTk; gpuNtrpf;fyhk;" vd;W egp (]y;) mth;fs; $wpdhh;fs;.

(mwptpg;gth;: md]; (uyp)> E}y;fs;: mG+`py;ah> kp];fhj; my;k]hgP`; - 1177)

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,e;jg; gf;fj;ij ez;gh;fSf;F mDg;g ,q;Nf fpspf; nra;Aq;fs;

,J Xh; ,];yhkpa jh/th FOtpdhpd; ,izaj;jsk;